100 ways into a conversation

The stories behind the person you call Mom or Dad.

You know your dad’s stories. Do your children? Start with one question about the life your parents lived before you knew them—and keep the answer in their own words.

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A gentle place to begin

Curiosity is enough.

You do not need to conduct an interview or follow the list in order. Pick the question that makes you curious, give the conversation room to wander, and let the answer be its own. A familiar question can lead somewhere you have never been together.

Listen without rushing to the next prompt. If a memory feels tender, it is always fine to pause or change direction. The best keepsake is a conversation that feels like yours.

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100 questions for the stories you haven’t heard yet.

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Childhood

Childhood
What is the first thing you remember from being a child?
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Childhood
What was the house you grew up in like?
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Childhood
Where did you go when you wanted a little time to yourself?
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Childhood
What did you and your friends do after school?
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Childhood
Which game could you never get tired of playing?
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Childhood
What did your family usually eat on an ordinary evening?
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Childhood
What was a small thing that made you feel grown up?
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Childhood
What did you imagine your adult life would look like?
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Childhood
Which childhood smell takes you straight back?
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Childhood
What did you get in trouble for most often?
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Family

Family
What is something you understand about your parents now that you did not understand then?
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Family
Who in our family made you laugh the most?
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Family
What family tradition would you most like us to keep?
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Family
What did your family do together on a Sunday?
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Family
Which relative do you wish I could have known better?
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Family
What did you learn about being a parent from your own parents?
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Family
What is a family story that gets told differently every time?
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Family
When did you feel most proud of our family?
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Family
What did you hope home would feel like for your children?
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Family
What is one thing you hope our family remembers about where we came from?
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Love & relationships

Love & relationships
How did you and your first great love meet?
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Love & relationships
What did you notice about the person you chose to build a life with?
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Love & relationships
When did you realize this relationship was something special?
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Love & relationships
What is a small kindness you have never forgotten?
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Love & relationships
What has helped you through a difficult season together?
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Love & relationships
What do you think makes a friendship last?
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Love & relationships
What is something love taught you that you could not have learned another way?
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Love & relationships
What was your favorite simple date?
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Love & relationships
How has your idea of love changed over the years?
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Love & relationships
What advice about relationships would you give your younger self?
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Growing up & school

Growing up & school
Which teacher saw something in you before you saw it in yourself?
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Growing up & school
What subject came naturally to you, and which one did not?
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Growing up & school
What was your first day at a new school like?
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Growing up & school
Were you part of a team, club, or group that mattered to you?
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Growing up & school
What music did you listen to on the way to school?
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Growing up & school
What did you do on the last day of school each year?
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Growing up & school
What was the first thing you bought with your own money?
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Growing up & school
What did you and your friends talk about for hours?
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Growing up & school
When did you first feel like you belonged?
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Growing up & school
What would surprise your school-age self about your life now?
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Work & purpose

Work & purpose
What was your very first job, and what do you remember about it?
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Work & purpose
How did you find the work you ended up doing?
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Work & purpose
Which part of your work made you feel useful?
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Work & purpose
Who gave you an opportunity that changed your direction?
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Work & purpose
What is something you learned the hard way at work?
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Work & purpose
Was there a moment when you knew it was time for a change?
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Work & purpose
What did a good working day feel like to you?
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Work & purpose
What did you do when you were not sure what came next?
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Work & purpose
What are you proud of that has nothing to do with a job title?
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Work & purpose
What would you tell someone beginning their working life today?
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Turning points

Turning points
Which decision took you down a path you could not have expected?
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Turning points
When did you have to begin again?
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Turning points
What is a risk you are glad you took?
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Turning points
What was a difficult goodbye that changed you?
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Turning points
When did someone show up for you at just the right time?
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Turning points
What is something you once feared that became manageable?
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Turning points
Was there a moment when your priorities shifted all at once?
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Turning points
What change in your life turned out better than you imagined?
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Turning points
What did you have to let go of to move forward?
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Turning points
Which ordinary day became important only in hindsight?
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Places & adventures

Places & adventures
What place have you visited that still feels vivid when you think of it?
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Places & adventures
Where did your family go for its first big trip?
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Places & adventures
What was the longest journey you ever took?
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Places & adventures
Which road, neighborhood, or view feels like home to you?
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Places & adventures
What is a travel mishap that became a funny story later?
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Places & adventures
Where would you go if you could revisit one day of your life?
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Places & adventures
What did your hometown sound like at night?
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Places & adventures
Have you ever arrived somewhere and felt instantly at ease?
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Places & adventures
Which place changed the way you saw the world?
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Places & adventures
What is a place you have always wanted to show me?
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Everyday life

Everyday life
What did a perfect ordinary Saturday look like when you were young?
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Everyday life
What song can still get you to sing along?
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Everyday life
What meal do you make when you want someone to feel cared for?
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Everyday life
What is a little ritual you have kept for years?
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Everyday life
What did you like to do when you had an afternoon to yourself?
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Everyday life
Which object in your home has the best story behind it?
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Everyday life
What season of the year feels most like you?
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Everyday life
What is something you enjoy more now than you did at 20?
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Everyday life
What sound makes you feel at home?
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Everyday life
What is a simple pleasure you hope never goes out of fashion?
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Lessons & values

Lessons & values
What belief has stayed with you through most of your life?
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Lessons & values
What does being a good friend mean to you?
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Lessons & values
When have you changed your mind about something important?
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Lessons & values
What do you wish people worried less about?
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Lessons & values
What is a quality you admire in other people?
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Lessons & values
How do you know when to speak up and when to listen?
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Lessons & values
What is one way you try to make things better for people around you?
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Lessons & values
What has taught you the most about patience?
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Lessons & values
What does a meaningful life look like to you now?
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Lessons & values
What do you hope the next generation will do differently?
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Looking back

Looking back
What is a story about your life you have not had a chance to tell me?
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Looking back
Which moment would you gladly experience one more time?
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Looking back
What are you still curious about?
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Looking back
What is something you are grateful you did not rush?
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Looking back
Which version of yourself would you most like to reassure?
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Looking back
What are you proud of that other people might not know about?
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Looking back
What did you learn about yourself later than you wish you had?
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Looking back
What would you like your grandchildren to know about you?
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Looking back
What do you hope our family carries forward from your life?
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Looking back
If you could leave us with one story, which one would it be?
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A few things worth knowing

Before the conversation begins

Do I need to ask all of these questions?

Not at all. One question is a good beginning. Follow the conversation rather than trying to complete a checklist.

Can I save an answer in more than one way?

Fireside Stories supports stories in text, audio, and video, with transcription available. The storyteller can use the format that feels comfortable.

Can my family keep stories together?

Registered members can take part in family groups. Stories can be organized into collections, shared with guest viewers, and explored through book previews or PDFs.

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The stories behind the person you call Mom or Dad.

Curiosity is enough.

100 questions for the stories you haven’t heard yet.

Childhood

What is the first thing you remember from being a child?

What was the house you grew up in like?

Where did you go when you wanted a little time to yourself?

What did you and your friends do after school?

Which game could you never get tired of playing?

What did your family usually eat on an ordinary evening?

What was a small thing that made you feel grown up?

What did you imagine your adult life would look like?

Which childhood smell takes you straight back?

What did you get in trouble for most often?

Family

What is something you understand about your parents now that you did not understand then?

Who in our family made you laugh the most?

What family tradition would you most like us to keep?

What did your family do together on a Sunday?

Which relative do you wish I could have known better?

What did you learn about being a parent from your own parents?

What is a family story that gets told differently every time?

When did you feel most proud of our family?

What did you hope home would feel like for your children?

What is one thing you hope our family remembers about where we came from?

Love & relationships

How did you and your first great love meet?

What did you notice about the person you chose to build a life with?

When did you realize this relationship was something special?

What is a small kindness you have never forgotten?

What has helped you through a difficult season together?

What do you think makes a friendship last?

What is something love taught you that you could not have learned another way?

What was your favorite simple date?

How has your idea of love changed over the years?

What advice about relationships would you give your younger self?

Growing up & school

Which teacher saw something in you before you saw it in yourself?

What subject came naturally to you, and which one did not?

What was your first day at a new school like?

Were you part of a team, club, or group that mattered to you?

What music did you listen to on the way to school?

What did you do on the last day of school each year?

What was the first thing you bought with your own money?

What did you and your friends talk about for hours?

When did you first feel like you belonged?

What would surprise your school-age self about your life now?

Work & purpose

What was your very first job, and what do you remember about it?

How did you find the work you ended up doing?

Which part of your work made you feel useful?

Who gave you an opportunity that changed your direction?

What is something you learned the hard way at work?

Was there a moment when you knew it was time for a change?

What did a good working day feel like to you?

What did you do when you were not sure what came next?

What are you proud of that has nothing to do with a job title?

What would you tell someone beginning their working life today?

Turning points

Which decision took you down a path you could not have expected?

When did you have to begin again?

What is a risk you are glad you took?

What was a difficult goodbye that changed you?

When did someone show up for you at just the right time?

What is something you once feared that became manageable?

Was there a moment when your priorities shifted all at once?

What change in your life turned out better than you imagined?

What did you have to let go of to move forward?

Which ordinary day became important only in hindsight?

Places & adventures

What place have you visited that still feels vivid when you think of it?

Where did your family go for its first big trip?

What was the longest journey you ever took?

Which road, neighborhood, or view feels like home to you?

What is a travel mishap that became a funny story later?

Where would you go if you could revisit one day of your life?

What did your hometown sound like at night?

Have you ever arrived somewhere and felt instantly at ease?

Which place changed the way you saw the world?

What is a place you have always wanted to show me?

Ask the question.
Save the answer.